Sex and Sexy

I have always wondered on the reasons why a lady has to be beautiful at all cost, flaunting so many attractive features and must always have sex appeal to be seen as a woman, or else she could as well not exist at all or exist as an insignificant 3rd creature created after man and woman. Why should a woman carry this sex thing with her, wherever she goes its not that a man’s mind is deprived at what he sees, he’s just reacting to what he sees "wow you look like a girl I can take home to Mama" he was just trying to be polite he actually meant "…take to the bed". I could accept to the fact that some men could be excessive in rising to the occasion upon sighting a female but what it is, is that, should they be proud of it and flaunt it big time or be proud of it then flaunt it with caution or should they be ashamed of exhuming feminity or sex appeal?. As a proponent of feminty, I will want to define the feminine sexual appeal without depreciating morally. I want to see sex appeal as part of God’s good gift to man and also as a way of life, where women are allowed to spice up their day, be proud of their body, feel comfortable with what they wear without sending out the wrong signals. The issue of sex is a function of the female’s sex appeal, which is because of her sexual awakening. It is something like a call to duty or like a soldier called up to war. ladies rise to the occasion when it comes to flaunting their sex appeal thereby creating an abstract view of what sex might be even though the act itself has not taken place. "Look, its everywhere you see them flaunting the boobs, exposing enough cleavage to be called breast. Swinging those hips in such a way a blind man could hear them talk, exposing their pant and thongs with little or no clothe with it, wearing erotically inclined colognes and perfumes strong enough to make a man jerk off. All this gang on what lies at the bottom heart of those at the receiving ends (MEN) is sex, sex, sex… The final act that fulfill all his hopes and dreams the act that gives the final definition of what a woman’s true sexual appeal is. Men don’t see what the true essence of what sexual appeal is in a woman, they only want to have a taste of those components that builds up the whole essence of womanhood. He sees the true sex appeal in having sex with the woman in bed, the groans and moans, the sucking, licking, biting, sweat and the final outburst of his accumulated input or frustration he has endured for long by the hands of the woman. But really I don’t think its time to differentiate between sex and sex appeal. One should be seen as the exposure celebration of the essence of feminity while the other that explains the act of love showing appreciation to the right one at the right time for the right people (married people). And not otherwise, its time to see a lady walking by looking all sexy and funky to be appreciated and not to be devoured by the lusting eyes of men standing by who have already pictured her in bed with her legs wide apart screaming in so many unheard languages. And ladies please let’s celebrate the true essence of female sex appeal with a sense of modesty and not sticking "playboy images" directly to the faces of men saying "take me, take me I want it". But what it should be saying is that "if you want it, you have to respect it, respect it, love it to earn it. And to all randy men outside I would say "don touch it, leave it. And to the ladies outside there flaunt it".